Airline to nursing mom: Cover up or you can’t fly

Posted on: 11:40 am, February 25, 2014, by , updated on: 11:39am, February 25, 2014

Airline to nursing mom: Cover up or you can't fly - Lindsay Tweets

New mom Lindsay Jaynes was just trying to be proactive. Weeks before a scheduled trip, she tweeted Delta Air Lines just to make sure she’d be allowed to breastfeed without a cover during the flight.

Next time she might just nurse first and ask questions later.

After a Delta representative responded that she couldn’t breast feed unless she had a cover-up, the California mom suddenly found herself in the middle of a social media storm and frustrated by the airline’s attempts to smooth things over.

Friday night, Jaynes sent the following tweet:

“What’s your breast feeding policy? I’ll be flying with my 10wk old son and he won’t nurse with a cover or take a bottle. Thanks”

The reply? “@ClassicHippie Lindsay unfortunately you are not able to breast feed if you don’t have a cover up. I’m sorry. *SD”

In an interview with HLN affiliate WXIA, Jaynes said she was shocked by the answer.

“I was expecting a link to their policy I could print out just in case there were any issues.”

Oh, there were issues all right. And they started piling up right in her Twitter feed.

“@DeltaAssist My flight is six hours and he needs to eat every two hours. What do you suggest?”

“@ClassicHippie I would suggest pumping if you can and bringing it on board with you. You are allowed to bring breast milk on board. *SD”

“@DeltaAssist I’ve tried since he was born to get him to eat from a bottle and he absolutely won’t, so that’s not an option.”

“@DeltaAssist So even though I am legally allowed to breastfeed without a cover, you’re saying I can’t? Is there a Delta written policy?”

By this point, the public back-and-forth had caught the attention of breastfeeding supporters and advocates. A tweet from popular community site The Leaky Boob advised Jaynes she didn’t have to ask for the airline’s permission to nurse without a cover.

“I was just trying to head off any problems before I even got on the plane, but that’s obviously not happening :( ” she replied, frowny face included.

Someone else had obviously taken notice of the conversation as well, since @DeltaAssist, a customer-friendly Twitter account run by the airline, went silent and then hours later contacted Jaynes with an apology and completely different guidance from what she’d been told earlier.

“@ClassicHippie Delta welcomes breastfeeding mothers and babies on our flights. We apologize for the misinformation earlier. *TH”

The airline followed up with a private direct message, briefly apologizing to Jaynes “about the misinformation.” But unimpressed, she went ahead and made their apology public, while also noting Delta told her the person with whom she initially tweeted “has been informed of the correct policy” regarding nursing mothers.

Jaynes explained on Twitter that her 10-week-old son, Seamus, has “refused” to take a bottle or feed while under a nursing cover. An overwhelming number of people on the site have sympathized with and rallied behind her, while also taking aim at Delta.

“Nothing infuriates me more than imposing shame and modesty on women, especially when they are simply feeding their children. @DeltaAssist,” tweeted one woman.

However, Jaynes has also been retweeting samples of the other kinds of messages she’s now receiving as a result of all this, including these:

“@DeltaAssist great move! @ClassicHippie when you’re comfortable with men flopping their winkies at you, then you can flop your boobs around” — @RayJuniorShow

“@ClassicHippie I get your kid has to eat and all but why make other people on your flight uncomfortable? It’s quite disrespectful.” — @SMARKRAGE

General rule of debate: If your sentence begins with “I get that your baby has to eat and all” there is nothing which can follow that will help your cause. However, here’s one reply we can pretty much all agree with, from @thecrabigail:

“Pretty sure passengers and crew would be more offended by screaming baby than happily eating one.”

In 2012, a woman reached a settlement with Delta, Freedom Airlines and Mesa Air Group after being ordered off a Delta-operated flight in 2006 when she refused to cover up while breastfeeding her child.

By Jonathan Anker

8 comments

  • tonya says:

    Yeah no one wants to see that sorry.

  • D says:

    I nursed four babies, and no one ever saw my breasts. You cannot see anything, even without a coverup, while nursing. God gave us mammals breasts to feed our young. Some people need to grow up!

  • If she was only truing to be proactive, she wouldn’t have made it a public debate on Twitter. For the record, I have no problem with women breast feeding anywhere. My sister in law used to use breast feeding as a means to try and embarrass my friends and I when I was 11 years old. She obviously underestimated the curiosity of 11 year old boys.

  • Stasha says:

    PEOPLE, THAT IS THE SOLE PURPOSE FOR OUR BREASTS!!!!!!!! That is why they are there!!!! If you are offended or feel its disrespectful to nurse a baby, then seek professional help!!!! That’s your problem and YOU deal with it!!!

  • Doesn't matter says:

    My daughter could not digest formula. She had to be nursed. If you’re so uncomfortable, them don’t watch. It’s that simple. Just because it’s happening doesn’t mean you’re forced to look at it

  • Liz says:

    As for the comment “no one wants to see that” that’s pathetic. It’s natural and I’ve seen some pretty ugly people on planes. I’d rather see a happy sleeping baby

  • Mandi says:

    @D Scott Horton, she actually called first and they told her to try the twitter account…

  • Kim says:

    It’s different strictly because you have a baby attached. If you’re just sitting there with your breast out, it serves no productive purpose. With a baby on, you are feeding a baby, and doing so the way nature intended. Have you ever seen a woman breastfeeding in public? More often than not, all you see is a few square inches of side boob. You get it out when the baby is hungry, latch on, feed, and when baby is done, put it away. It’s not like breastfeeding women pull out their breasts for the sake of having them out. Enough women boarding the flight probably have low-cut tops that show off more cleavage than that. And yet no one would ask these other women to cover up, because it’s her choice to wear that clothing. Only the breastfeeding mom.

    Breastfeeding isn’t nearly as much of a choice as you seem to think. Bottle/formula feeding is an alternative method of feeding a baby. Breastfeeding is what directly, logically follows: you have a baby, then you breastfeed. Otherwise, why would women naturally lactate, no matter their feeding intentions, after having a baby? It’s as much of a choice as sleeping at night.

    This society is only uncomfortable with breastfeeding because it has been so puritanically sterilized.

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